We must never loose that “little boy” inside of us. As we progress through life, we sometimes build a wall, a facade ; to protect ourselves, to represent our position, to demonstrate our capabilities or even to hide insecurities.
Perhaps in search for happiness , fullfillment ?
But happiness was when we ran barefooted in the soccer field, climbed tress and skinny dipping in a river. I believe most of us missed those days ; and should incorporate moments of our past in to our present lives.
We do not need to climb trees today but we can still have a bottle of wine and enjoy loud unrestricted laughter with our good old friends of yesteryears.
Stop talking …… Stop endless discussion … Decide !! Start doing, take action More speed more urgency Modify along the way … Commit to a deadline ….. Be accountable Do not let others WAIT.
The news repeating again and again that “Kamala is the FIRST WOMAN OF COLOR” to fill the VP chair and that “this is a victory for black women” is really sad.
She is Kamala Harris. Praise her, focus on her credentials and qualities.
Why is there a need to emphasize so much of her “color”? Isn’t this “encouraging” racial polarization in modern America ?
Just treat her as a well deserving “human being” elected by the people …..regardless of race, gender, religion and color.
If only you are willing to say sorry, willing to own up, stop being defensive and take sincere actions to correct your fault, life will be less complicated and meaningful relationship will be forged.
Nobody is perfect … and the ability to admit your shortcomings shows dignity and humility.
As we forge ahead into the new normal era, we will need to redefine our niche and strengths again.
We will need to adapt, change and re-change many times to achieve a balance on what our new routines should be like.
Our past strengths could be our new weaknesses today. Be prepared to leave some of our “old me” behind. Create a NEW-ME …..a one that is stronger and compassionate as well as living a life of mutual respect and empathy.