Be who you are  ….it’s better than wearing a mask or being a hypocrite. A life of pretense is shallow and meaningless,  for you attract the wrong “souls” into your life. 
They will ultimately  leave you when your true self surfaces.

Happiness is to do what you want (responsibly of course) …. not hurting anyone on purpose ….. enjoy life….. love …..and be loved by those who sees the real you ….and standing by you.